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23 Jan

Coping with Seasonal Affective Disorder

Ahhh Winter, something that comes around every single year and yet somehow I underestimate each time just how badly it affects me. As soon as the hours of daylight per day start to fall in October it hits me.

I think Winter affects a lot of people in different ways. Many feel a bit more lethargic etc but when it truly impacts on your mental and physical health you know about it! And it can be hard to explain to other people who don’t suffer the same. Seasonal Affective Disorder is definitely something that I suffer with during the winter. I find both my mental health and physical health are effected during this time and I think it’s a vicious cycle of them both impacting on each other too.

Having chronic health issues and chronic pain cold, damp weather causes a huge symptom flare up for me. However I also find my anxiety is worse and my mood is so much lower during this time as well. I find that it particularly hits me after Christmas, January & February usually feel like the longest months ever!

I thought that this post might hopefully help some of you who are going through the same.

I’d describe the feelings as hugely lethargic – I mean awful, I don’t feel properly awake until about midday most of the time! Tearful, moody, irritable and like there’s a painfully heavy weight sitting on my chest. I become a bit of a recluse just wanting to stay at home in my room as being around people is too much to cope with. I become a contradiction: I feel desperately lonely yet I want to be left alone. You may have seen that meme “I’m sorry for the things I said when it was winter”? Well that resonates with me as I don’t think I’m myself at all!

I genuinely feel like this cloud is gradually lifted off me when Spring/Summer rolls around though. Literally a light at the end of that long dark winter tunnel!! I joke that it’s because I was born in the Summer of a very hot year and I’m not made for the Winter – but there is a lot more too it than that.

To understand more about SAD you can find lots of information of on the SAD website and if you’re struggling with your mental health check out Mind.

I really wanted to share a little of how this affects me and some ways that I have found to deal with things in case it can help someone else. It might also explain why my blog posts have been a bit sparse so far this year. So this post is kind of like a ‘note to self’ for next year advising future Katie on how to help herself the best she can. However I really hope this helps some of you out too. I think it applies to low mood, anxiety and depression in general not just SAD. Here are a few things/ways which help me to cope:

Create an Upbeat Playlist

I definitely think music is a really powerful tool and can make a real difference to your mood! I love creating playlists so enjoyed creating some mood boosting ones. I love musicals and Disney so I picked many of bouncy, happier ones – Moana How Far I’ll Go is a favourite!! After that just look at any old favourites that make you feel good and empowered, a bit of Beyoncé and Destiny’s Child always works for me. I’d say pick songs you can dance and sing a long to – whether internally or literally – and the cheesier the better too!

Going to the Gym

Or just any form of exercise really! Although you may not always feel like it to start with afterwards you will undoubted feel incredible with all those endorphins released through your body. I’d say exercising is by FAR the one thing that makes the most difference to how I’m feeling mentally. It’s a particular struggle for me with my chronic health issues though and I regularly find myself physically not being able to do any exercise at all and then it’s even tougher to start again! I need to keep mobile and maintain my strength as much as I can though so if I can’t manage the gym I at the very least try to get for a little walk round where I live (rain or shine!) getting out in the fresh air is really helpful for mood as well.

Talk to someone

One of the most important things to do whenever you’re feeling low is to find someone to talk to. Even if you think they’re not going to understand. Whether that’s a friend, family member or doctor sharing your how you feel takes some of that weight off you and more importantly makes you feel like you’re not alone. You never know you might even find someone who is feeling exactly the same! I’m lucky I’ve always had my Mum to talk to.

Getting Outside

Getting out of the house and in the fresh air and in nature particularly around midday or anytime there is any sunshine is so beneficial! In the winter the central heating is on and the windows are all shut – it can make me feel suffocated. As I said before I try and get out for a daily walk, rain or shine! I’ve always done this, I can’t go very far but even just a walk around the block can do the trick.

Write a list of Positives & Achievements

You may remember my post at the end of last year on my Biggest Achievements of 2017. Highlighting positive things you have done and achieved however big or small they may be is a boost we all need! You can then add to them and read through them whenever you’re feeling low or doubting yourself.

Socialising

Although I may not feel like it when I’m in the depths of depression it’s really important maintain a social life. I remember being told this a lot by many medical professionals actually during my early teen, when I was first started having serious health problems, and it’s really stuck with me as it’s easy to loose contact with your friends in these kind of situations. I do feel like I am guilty of not being in contact at this time of year though. So I try my best to make myself arrange things even if it’s just a lunch or a cinema trip. It a) gets me out of the house which is always healthy and b) gets me out of my own head. I do find I have to ‘pep myself up a bit’ before I see anyone but I usually feel so much better afterwards because I am naturally quite an outgoing social butterfly! See friends that you know you always have a good laugh with. The old saying that “laughter is the best medicine” is definitely true!

Planning things to look forward to

Leading off from the last point, having things planned and to look forward to gives you the motivation to keep going and get excited about the future. Maybe it’s a trip, concert, a birthday party or a holiday anything that you can get planning!

Keep Occupied

Start a hobby or find something new that interests you and focus on it. I have my blog to keep me busy and there is always something I can do towards that. I also make jewellery which I sell on Etsy. Keeping your mind active and focused on something other than how your feeling is a strategy I have found really works for me and gives me a purpose.

Find moments of calm each day

Sometimes you do just need some alone time, some quiet time where you can just breathe and collect yourself. Especially when you live with other people. I am rubbish at relaxing I think I sometimes overdo my strategy of keeping myself occupied to distract myself from my chronic pain to the point where I can’t wind down as it means I’m just left with my pain and my thoughts. Some ways I like to unwind include: listening to my chill out playlists, putting down my phone (as I’m never relaxed when I’m on that!), snuggles with my cat (pets are supposed to help calm and reduce blood pressure) and I enjoy having a pamper night with a face mask or painting my nails. Any kind of self care like that can give you a boost. There are some Meditation and Mindfulness Apps available if they would suit you.

Here are a few other little tips to help with your everyday wellbeing:

 

Vitamin D Supplements

I do also take vitamin D tablets as well as a vitamin that contains iron, I was tested a while back and found to have slightly low levels. Now I’m not sure how much these help in this case but I figure they can’t hurt. If you feel like vitamin deficiency might be contributing to your problems then it’s worth getting a blood test at your doctors surgery.

 

Use a Light Therapy Box or Light Alarm Clock

I do have one of the light boxes that are meant to help by stimulating the sensors at the back of your eyes and tricking them into thinking it’s natural daylight. I’m not entirely convinced as to how much they work for me personally though – I find it mainly just makes my eyes hurt to be completely honest! You don’t stare directly at them but you have to have them in your line of vision for a decent length of time. I might look into getting one of the alarm clocks though as they’re meant to help wake you up slowly by getting gradually brighter. I like to make sure my curtains are wide open first thing though to get as much natural light in as possible.

Even with all these tips the fact is I know I’m always going to struggle during the winter months. But as long as I know that and the people around me know that and we take all the steps we can do help then I’ll manage.

Just remember there so many people out there going through the exact same thing and you WILL come out the other side!

Katie Kirk

I’m Katie a blogger from Brighton with a love for colour, beauty, photography & twirly fairytale dresses. I have chronic illnesses but am attempting to prove that in spite of those obstacles you can still create a full life that you love!

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